It is with profound sadness and heavy hearts that we share the passing of Caitlin McIntyre Holtslag of Kings Park, New York. Known lovingly to many as “Cait,” she was a radiant presence in the lives of everyone who knew her—a devoted wife, nurturing mother, cherished daughter and sister, and an irreplaceable friend. Her death is a heartbreaking loss to her family, friends, and the wider community.
Born and raised in Merrick, New York, Caitlin attended Sanford H. Calhoun High School, where her vibrant spirit and infectious laughter began to leave an indelible impression on those around her.
She later pursued higher education at the University of Hawaii, a place where she further embraced life’s adventure, beauty, and diversity. Her years there shaped her deeply, and she carried the aloha spirit with her throughout her life.
Caitlin eventually made her home in Kings Park, New York, where she built a beautiful life centered around her family. As a mother, she was endlessly loving and playful, the kind of mom who turned the ordinary into magic and made every day feel special. As a wife, she was a constant source of love, support, and joy. Her home was always warm and welcoming, filled with laughter, music, and love.
Anyone who had the privilege of knowing Caitlin knew that she had a rare and radiant energy. Her sense of humor was quick, clever, and never failed to lift the mood of those around her.
She had a gift for storytelling, an eye for beauty in simple things, and a way of making everyone feel seen and valued. Whether she was cracking a joke, sharing a funny anecdote, or just offering a shoulder to lean on, Cait had a remarkable ability to make life brighter.
Caitlin leaves behind a heartbroken family and a network of friends whose lives are richer for having known her. Her sudden passing has left an unfillable void, and the grief felt by those who loved her is immeasurable.
During this time of sorrow, her community is rallying together in support of her loved ones—offering strength, prayers, and any assistance they can provide. As we remember Caitlin, we hold tightly to the many moments of joy and laughter she gave us.
We remember the holidays she made special, the kindness she extended freely, and the vibrant energy she brought into every room. Her memory will live on in the stories we share, the love she sowed in her children, and the countless lives she touched with her grace and humor.
Funeral arrangements and memorial services will be shared by the family in the coming days. In the meantime, loved ones are encouraged to share memories, photos, and messages of support. A fund may be established to support Caitlin’s family as they navigate this time of unimaginable loss.
Caitlin McIntyre Holtslag was a light in this world, and though that light has gone out too soon, its glow remains in the hearts of those who knew and loved her. We will miss her deeply and hold her memory close always.
